This is a question sent in by anonymous on the “Ask Aaron Anything” link:
What would you say to a woman who is opposed to Biblically submitting to a husband’s authority in marriage? Reasoning that “that’s old times logic, we’re in new times now”
My Answer:
If that is her argument then you probably should just leave the debate alone and just pray for her. You believe in scripture and its authority and she has made it ancient and outdated. I would say stop arguing and start praying for her, not that she will learn to submit to her husband, but that she will believe in the inspiration and authority of scripture. If she is your wife you are going to have to learn to lead her and love her like Christ did the church. The church is a rebellious, unsubmisive, selfish bride and Christ has lovingly led and covered us. I will post a great message on this topic. Check it out and I hope it helps!
If anyone has any advice feel free to comment!
I think Pastor Aaron's advice is good. What is the point in arguing with someone, especially when his/ her mind is not open to change?
I was having breakfast with some old co workers when the same subject came up. It made me feel sad for them, because they don't understand that 1) a husband is suppose to give his life for his wife and family and 2) thus he ultimately has her best interest at heart. My coworkers were seeing submission as a way to be controlled and manipulated, which is not suppose to happen.
Praise God. Its just encouraging and good to hear a woman who understands that